Friday, March 29, 2013

Vietnam Part II: Saigon


After a few days in relatively peaceful beach mode, we headed to Ho Chi Minh City- otherwise known as Saigon.  Saigon was renamed to Ho Chi Minh City after the fall of Saigon in 1975- and while it’s called Ho Chi Minh City officially, all of the locals call it Saigon.  We were busy bees in Saigon.  We hired a tour guide recommended in Luxe Guide (Thanks Shanny!).  For anyone planning to do a bunch of travel, definitely pick up one of these handy guides for whatever city you are headed to.  They are truly fantastic.  Kevin (obviously that wasn’t his real name) became our guide for the next 3 days. 

On day one, we started with the War Remnants Museum.   The museum is meant to be an expose of the war crimes committed by the US government in the “American War”.  The museum is done in a photojournalistic style- so all photos and captions.  The story told is that of the United States Government invading Vietnam to murder and poison the men, women and children of Vietnam.  There are some graphic photos of naked children running from US soldiers, horribly deformed victims of Agent Orange, dead babies in the streets clutching their mothers… who are also dead. Obviously it was disturbing, but it was also educational.  For one, I didn’t know much about Agent Orange before.  It’s clearly one of the darkest moments in US history and I couldn’t help but feel shame for my country after seeing some of the gruesome impacts of the “American War”.   In one photo there is a giant tanker filled with poison with a “Purple People Eater” spray-painted on the side of it- and young soldiers (like 18 years old) smiling and laughing.  It’s impossible to understand the insanity of war.  I also didn’t realize that so many generations of people were impacted by Agent Orange- I mean babies being born in the 1990s were still being impacted- perhaps they still are today. 

That said, I also re-learned a few important facts- 1) History is in the eyes of the history teller.  The history told in this museum was so completely one-sided that it felt more like propaganda than truths in parts.  That said, I’m not used to seeing history told through non-American eyes and voices- and it really made me think about the museums I’ve been to in the US that tell the stories of wars.  Are we so one-sided?  I don’t think so, but I know we’re quite patriotic.  Where does the line get drawn?  I think I’ll have a different lens next time I visit a historical place in the US.  2) War is just incomprehensibly brutal and wrong for everyone involved in it.  The US did terrible things, but so did the North Vietnamese.  I do feel a new interest in learning more about the Vietnam War though.

A few days later, we visited the Cu Chi tunnels and got another side of the “American War” story in Vietnam.  Cu Chi is a small village about 90 minutes from Vietnam which is famous for creating a vast tunnel network and booby traps that successfully defeated US troops.  The tunnels were largely manned by young women- like 10-13 year old girls.  The story told here (via black and white 1970s videos) is again, the evil Americans (literally the word “evil”) invading Cu Chi village and the brave villagers fighting back with ingenuity.  The Cu Chi attraction is set up as just that an “attraction”.  There are places where you can crawl through the tunnels yourself (which we did) and test out the booby traps.  At first we were as interested as the other tourists, but as we progressed through the various stations, we became more and more disturbed.  Eventually we got an old half-blown up US tank where half a dozen US soldiers were killed.  Dozens of people were posing for pictures around the tank and it just made us all sick.  There was no reverence being given anywhere or by anyone it seemed.  Hundreds of young boys were mutilated or died here, and the tour groups seemed to be all laughing about it.  In juxtaposition to the War Remnants Museum, it started to tell more of a complete story.  I mean it’s never fathomable to see children killed in war, but it’s hard to know how to handle a situation when children are pulling the triggers of guns… what were the US soldiers suppose to do?  It’s just horrifying…the whole situation.

On a lighter note… we also got to experience a lot of the beautiful cultural elements of Saigon and the Mekong River Delta including gorgeous Chinese Temples, people making lacquerware by hand, a bee farm selling honey and bee nectar promised to cure all ills (of course my mom bought some), amazing, amazing food, coconut candy making (by hand), rice paper making by hand as well as the famed water puppets.  Avery loved the water puppet show best of all- a funky stage where a group of people sing and voice puppets in Vietnamese while the puppet operators skillfully make beautiful puppets swim, and glide through the a big pool of cloudy water (see pictures).  Really cool.

 Shopping is a haggling game (which I hate!) but we did our best in some of the crazy markets in Vietnam and picked up some cool souvenirs.  We also successfully learned to cross the street by the end of our trip.  I know that I mentioned motorbikes already in the Mui Ne post, but I have to talk about crossing the road…. There really are no cross-walks and very few traffic signals (at least signals that people adhere to!) so to cross the street, the strategy is focus your sights on your destination on the other side of the road, and slowly walk there without changing pace nor looking to the right or left.  If you change pace or turn your head to see the masses of motorbikes coming your way, you’ll probably get hit, but if you calmly stay the course, the motorbikers will ride around you.  Totally frightening but also kind of exhilarating.

Final thoughts on Saigon:  really loved my time here.  We all did.  We all learned so much about Vietnam and also about our own history and perceptions of Americans.  For my mom most of all, who lived through the Vietnam War, it was really an emotional journey as well.  I’m grateful we had this experience and yet was also quite grateful to land back in Singapore and feel for the first time that I was “home” even though it’s 9000+ miles away from Philadelphia.  


Wendy lighting incense at the Thien Hau Pagoda- The Pagoda of the Lady
Thien Hau Pagoda

Lion Dance- the women performing this were all 80+ years old!

Did I mention it was hot and tiring to do so much sight seeing?  She was a trooper!

Parliament building
Yummy fancy dinner- Avery's came with a giant carrot carved into a beautiful bird.  She played with it all through dinner and insisted in taking it with her when we left.  Suddenly in the taxi we heard a crunch, and she was eating her carrot bird friend!
Since it was Tet while we were there (week long holiday for Lunar New Year) the streets had an amazing festive look and vibe- Avery chose a dinosaur balloon to celebrate Lunar New Year. 
On our Mekong River Delta cruise we visited a bee farm
We drank bee nectar and ate lots of yummy honey treats. 
We took several boats island hopping in the Mekong River Delta- this one was human propelled using long oars.
We actually ate this fish for lunch.  It's called an Elephant Ear Fish and has scales all over it- actually tasted good but was hideous!

Cu Chi Tunnels- Rob testing it out
Crawling through the Cu Chi tunnels... yes, with Avery.  Amazing that people actually lived in these claustrophobic tunnels.

War Remnants Museum.  Seemed like a crazy juxtaposition. Couldn't resist. 
Old Presidential Palace (during the Vietnam War).  Was gorgeous and lavish inside.  

Water Puppet Show

Mekong River... A bit murky

Getting into the spirit with the classic cone hat.  People really do still wear them- they double as sun shade and rain protection.  



Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Vietnam Part I... Mui Ne

 
Time has flown by and we are woefully behind in blog posts! So much is happening... all too fast! Our first extended stay guest, my mom, Wendy, arrived in mid January. While Singapore is a great destination in itself, we wanted to take my mom somewhere special as well, and thus we decided to plan a family trip to Vietnam for a full week over the Lunar New Year (Chinese New Year) holiday in mid February.

This was the first trip that I can honestly say I was nervous about. All of the others have just made me feel excited leading up to them- but something about being gone for a week, in a third world country that was once at war with the United States, with my 2 year old and my mom... all just made me really anxious- I wonder why! We used all of the knowledge we gained from our other trips to plan this trip as best we could to ensure we had a great time, and I am so happy to report that we had a truly amazing time in Vietnam- and my anxiety was rewarded with a great trip!

Vietnam was truly a learning experience- even in the planning phase. I had no idea that Vietnam was so huge! It has 2000+ miles of coast line, a really diverse climate since it's a long skinny country, and is packed full of 89 million people! We decided to head for southern Vietnam (where it's still warm in the winter unlike Hanoi) and spend half of our trip relaxing at a beach area called Mui Ne and the other half in Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon).

Upon first arrival into Vietnam, we were seriously shocked by how nice the airport was- very clean and modern (NOTHING like Bali- ugh), and how enormously expensive our visas were! I have to wonder if there is a special American tax to enter Vietnam. I would not be surprised. Our driver picked us up and we began our 5 hour journey to Mui Ne.  After a few tries at figuring out the wacky conversion rate of Vietnamese Dong vs. American Dollars (20,000VD to $1), we were on our way.  

While there were many things to see on the way to Mui Ne looking out the window, no descriptions can do justice to our awe of the motorbike situation in Vietnam.  Oh My God.  I thought Phuket, Bangkok and Bali had a lot of motorbikes.  No.  They don’t.  Everyone in Vietnam rides a motorbike.  Through the course of our time, we played an ongoing game of “find the most ridiculous thing you can on a motorbike”… some of the best contenders were:  A baby riding in a high chair, a man with 50 helium balloons, a woman breastfeeding her infant, a person with a giant, round metal table, huge billowing bags of recyclables, 7 foot long logs for fire wood… the list could really go on and on. 

Adults on motorbikes all wear helmets- usually the “cool” kind of motorcycle helmet you would see in the states that probably offers zero protection in an actual crash… kids for some reason don’t wear helmets.  Wild. 

Helmets may be optional, but everyone wears a mask over their face to protect themselves from the pollution.  Masks are a big business  with kiosks selling them everywhere you go and people use it as a fashion accessory- choosing cartoon character versions for their kids, and cute designs for themselves.  All of the women on motorbikes wear sweatshirts, long pants, hats, masks, gloves and special Vietnamese toe socks with their flip flops or sandals.  It was 90-100F in Vietnam.  The reason these women endure all of these clothes while it’s sweltering outside?  Fear of the sun and getting sun damage, or darker skin.  Additionally, it’s just plain dirty riding through the streets of Vietnam, and women want to keep themselves covered up and clean.  It has nothing to do with religion, it’s about their bodycare rituals.  For me, since I work on Johnson’s Body Care in Asia, this was a really interesting experience.

On the roads, the main road rules are “honk” to tell people you are coming and the bigger vehicle gets the right of way.  We beeped our way past many a motorbike, narrowly missing throngs of bikers, and then would nearly be mowed down ourselves as huge buses passed by our car honking loudly so we’d move out of the way.  Believe it or not, we got used to it pretty quickly.  The roads themselves were pretty decent- no major potholes or anything and we even traveled on expressways at some points. 

We finally arrived in Mui Ne and were thrilled with our resort- Pandamus Resort & Spa.  It was a bit out of the way from the main drag of Mui Ne, but the grounds were immaculate, the beach was beautiful, there was a huge pool, koi ponds, playground, great food and hilarious cover bands.  What more could you ask for?  Our rooms had a view of the pool and the ocean.  Not bad.  Kite surfing is a huge recreation in Mui Ne because the afternoons are quite windy.  Kite surfing is what it sounds like- basically a mix of surfing and flying a kite- so the person literally flies up in the air over waves.  It looked like SO much fun.  Apparently this sport is very popular in Australia and some parts of Asia, but I had never even heard of it.    

I said our beach was beautiful, and it was, but one of the disturbing things about Mui Ne was in fact the beaches. Rob and I ran on the beach a few times and found that once you left our immediate hotel grounds, the trash on the beaches was horrifying.  It literally looked like a dump in some points where the tides hit the beach particularly hard.  From food wrappers to clothes to tires to bottles and just “rubble”… it was a mess.  We later learned that our beach at the hotel is cleaned 3-5x per day because of how much trash washes up there!  I am not really a very green person, but seeing how devastating the trash build-up in Vietnam is, I have to say I’m suddenly a bit of a reformed person. 
The clientele at the resort was a bit surprising to us, even though we had read about this dynamic… nearly every other guest was Russian, with the exception of a few Chinese families.  Even some of the restaurants and stores have things written in Vietnamese and Russian, vs. English.  I guess our surprise at this dynamic belies has little we really knew about Vietnam before going there!  Besides being somewhat close geographically (basically nothing is close to Russia so Vietnam isn’t too far all things considered), Russia and China have had close bonds with Vietnam for many years because the of the communist government and philosophies the government shared.   Russia supported a lot of the reconstruction of Vietnam after the “American War” (more on that later.  We didn’t end up making any friends at the resort- language was a pretty significant barrier… but loved hanging out with Avery in the pool where she swam without her swim vest for the very first time!  Not bad for 28 months old!

The town of Mui Ne was reminiscent of some of the more chaotic beach towns I’ve visited in my life- the main drag is filled with hotels, restaurants and shops selling all kinds of stuff you probably don’t need.  One odd thing we saw was tons and tons of crocodile skin items- from belts and wallets to rugs and stuffed beasts big and small.  We learned that there are many crocodile farms in Vietnam (i.e. they are not being poached in the wild and they are not running rampant around Vietnam- phew!).    
Our time in Mui Ne flew by quickly, and before we knew it, we were headed back to Ho Chi Minh City for the next leg of our journey.  Overall thoughts on Mui Ne- great spot beach getaway.  We might have stayed a bit closer to the town if we hadn’t had Avery with us, but couldn’t have wished for more with a kiddo with us.  Stay tuned for Part II of Vietnam trip…
 

 Avery and Miss Kitty made themselves at home immediately.  Avery LOVED the canopy/mosquito netting!
 
 
 kite surfers in the background
 
 
 
 
 Crocodile dance
 Avery getting her picture taken... as usual.  Strangers take her picture wherever we go!
impetus for my new found environmentalism- truly, trash as far as the eye could see outside the resort area.
 recycling by motor bike
 baby on a high chair riding on a motor bike
man riding motor bike with millions of balloons