Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Christmas Vacation to Malaysia (and some other stuff)


We continue to gradually adjust to life in Singapore. On the work front, I had my first couple of late calls with the US. One call went until 1 am, but, fortunately, the expectation was that I would be in late the next morning. Nevertheless, I’m hoping those calls aren’t very common. I’ve also mentioned on the last few blogs about exploring foods. Other than work lunches, I can’t say we made significant progress. I was ecstatic to find out that there is a Pizza Hut here…and they deliver…and it tastes exactly like US Pizza Hut. Glorious. We also went to Chili’s (don’t judge – it was after a long Christmas shopping trip with Avery and we needed some comfort food…with guacamole). Carly did go to Bangkok and I had an interesting Bali Thai lunch (both with plenty of fish heads) so maybe I'm not giving us enough credit.

Avery and Tilly
Our apartment complex is slowly filling up, but we still have it mostly to ourselves. I would say it’s maybe 40% full. Our friends (Lee and Lindsay) rented out the BBQ area and had a catered pool party for their work friends. We, of course, crashed it. Avery’s becoming great friends with their daughter Tilly. She’s almost 4. These same friends also hired a helper who is our helper Jennifer’s aunt. So Avery and Tilly can have even more play dates.



Another adjustment we had to make was the logistics of Christmas shopping. Some learnings. 
  • For gift giving, buy far in advance if you want to ship something overseas. We paid for expedited shipping for delivery before Christmas and it didn’t get there on time. Or just do online shopping.
  • For gift receiving, get your lists ready far in advance so people can ship to you from the US. Also, do some research on places that deliver locally where family/friends can order online. We were never able to find any places in Singapore that would sell gift cards online.


Wait...this is our plane?!
And last, but definitely not least, we went to Malaysia this past weekend. We spent 3 days on Tioman Island. Singaporeans talk about going to Malaysia like it’s no big deal. Well, it was for us – it was our first time. We had to set realistic expectations before we went, though – it is monsoon season and we heard it rains A LOT. To start off, the flight was an adventure. We flew on a 48-passenger propeller plane that was probably half full. I’m pretty sure this airplane was the 8th wonder of the world – not sure how it made it this many years. OK, it wasn’t that bad, but it wasn’t the smoothest flight and when they turned the AC on it looked like smoke was pouring into the plane. Given the vibrations and humming, that seemed about right. But we made it in safely. The resort was called Berjaya and it was decent (I think we’re definitely spoiled with our Singapore condo). We saw many, many monkeys at the resort – they were there every morning to greet us for breakfast (and snag a dropped banana). While seeing monkeys is cool, there are some aspects of wild monkeys I hadn’t considered – apparently, they are known to break into rooms and steal food. Fortunately, we monkey-proofed our place.

Monkeys at breakfast

Monkeys on the  roof
The infamous giant iguana
View from hotel

Water slides at the pool!

On our first day, we did a half-day snorkeling trip to Corral Island. I highly recommend this. The weather was a bit rough at times (1 of the 6 people on our trip spent the majority of the trip sick, hanging over the side of the boat), but it stopped raining during the actual snorkeling. And the fish came right up to you. Avery loved it. They swam all around us nibbling the bread that was being thrown in. They even nibbled us a few times!!

 

Ummm...these are a bit big



Snorkel site

Petting the blind turtle
On the 2nd day, we took a tour of the island. The weather did not work out well for us, but we were able to salvage the day. The roads were horrendous. At times, it felt like we were driving vertically up this mountain and then we came to areas where the road was literally just gone. We made it to Juara Village and visited the Juara Turtle Project (http://www.juaraturtleproject.com/test/), which is a non-profit organization focused on saving the local turtle population. We felt a little famous because a Chinese family asked to take a picture with us for no apparent reason other than being American and having a blonde daughter. The monsoon took hold pretty much right after Juara Village, so we didn’t get to see any surfing or the waterfall attraction. We did go to the “marine park”, which turned out to be a pier where you stand and throw bread out in the water. I must say that I was initially disappointed, but it turned out to be amazing. The fish that came were frenzied and huge. Avery had a great time playing the “one for you, two for me” game with bread for the fish.
Juara Village

People - the winds are changing!

Fish feeding frenzy!!


Cheese sandwich lunch
by the airport
Was your card the queen of hearts?
We were scheduled to fly out on Christmas Eve and it almost didn’t happen. When I say almost, I mean we were delayed 4 hours and the crew was to the point where they were huddling and discussing whether to cancel the flight altogether. If that were to happen, the next flight out would be 2 days later and we’d be spending Christmas on Tioman Island or doing a Planes, Trains and Automobiles type trip across the country. We jokingly (somewhat) told Avery that we needed to make a Christmas wish on a Christmas star for a Christmas miracle (this is a quote from one of her favorite movies “Elmo’s Christmas Countdown”) that our flight would leave. The amazing part of the whole thing is that while we waited and waited…and waited, Avery kept everybody in great spirits. There were 14 people on our flight and she entertained them all in the waiting area. She was playing games and bringing her toys over to them (even the adults!). She couldn’t pronounce the names of 2 girls she was playing with so she kept calling them "friends". Every couple of minutes she would run across the room and say “hey, friends! Come over and sit down here!” :) So the moral of the story is that while we were initially focused on the destination, which was via a plane to Singapore, Avery reminded us to appreciate the journey and made everybody forget that we were waiting in this place for 6 hours. In the end, we were happy to make it home, but even happier to have Avery as our Christmas miracle :)
Making friends at dinner

Bye-bye!!















Monday, December 24, 2012

A Glimpse of Carly's Work & Hello Bangkok


Rob has been doing a great job keeping up with blog while I've been preoccupied with a busy work schedule.   Now that we are both working, it's time for me to pick up the slack! 

Speaking of work... the reason we are here, after all... so far so good!  My current role is on on Johnson's Adult Body Care- focused on long-term strategy and innovation in Asia Pacific.  Johnson's Adult doesn't exist in the US (anymore) but in AP, it is nearly $150MM and an important part of our skincare portfolio.  I had the opportunity to present to the Asia Pacific Leadership Team a few weeks ago and was happy with the result, but more importantly, I found it truly fascinating to see an international board in action.  The APLT has leaders from each market or market cluster in Asia, plus different functional heads (finance, supply chain, etc.).   What made this meeting different than any of the meetings I have seen before the US is the sheer complexity of different points of view.   There are 16 very different countries in AP- from very sophisticated skincare markets like Japan and Korea, to emerging markets like Indonesia and India, to markets like Australia that behave more like Europe or the US than Asia in many respects, and finally China- which is so huge and complicated that it must be approached very differently than the rest of the countries.  I learned a ton in just that one meeting- and I am happy to say my "global mindset" (as we call it at JNJ) is definitely evolving.

Hello Bangkok
Another highlight of my past few weeks at work was that I attended my first business trip- in Bangkok!  I was there to approve and direct new artwork for one of our lines.  Throughout the trip, I was mostly with our packaging engineer from China, 2 engineers from our Thailand plant, and our Thai supplier reps.  Everyone attempted to communicate in English despite native tongues of Chinese and Thai- it was quite a test of patience and persistence on everyone's part to ensure everyone was understanding one another.  It was also a reminder that I am fortunate to speak English fluently (and a tiny bit of French) and take for granted that English is the universal language of business (at least in J&J).    

Each day we had lunch family style at the cafeteria in the manufacturing facility of our supplier.  The lunch was  very nice and I am sure it was a luxury compared to the daily lunches the manufacturing employees were eating at the tables just a few feet away. It was definitely truly authentic Thai-  think exotic (at least to me) fish with the head, very spicy soups, and quite a few dishes I really could not identify (that seemed to be frequently seasoned with teeny tiny shrimp?).  I of course tried everything and ate as much as was possible- but wow- my taste buds are not accustomed to spicy food!  Lets just say when I made it to the airport after my 2.5 day trip, I didn't even feel guilty at all for eating a Burger King meal.



I stayed in a beautiful hotel in Bangkok called Siam Kempinski which I would highly recommend.   The hotel was not that expensive (compared to US or singapore standards) and yet claims to be 6 stars- not just five- and I would believe it.  The service was amazing (including the capes that the employees wore!) and the rooms, lobby etc was beautiful.  I was surprised that the hotel was fully decorated for Christmas considering Thailand is largely Buddhist- but i appreciated the gorgeous giant Christmas trees and life size gingerbread house!

Outside the pristine hotel, Bangkok is insane- I have never seen so many motorcycles/motorbikes- even 3 wheeled taxis that are modified motorbikes.  Just like Phuket, I saw whole families riding to school and work on one motorbike.  The only difference in Bangkok was that the ladies (side saddle) on the back of the motor bikes were wearing skirts and high heels... such a juxtaposition with the gritty Bangkok streets.  (I couldn't catch a good pic of my own, but the pics here are exactly what I saw). The traffic is insane in Bangkok- people regularly ride 2+hours to get to work each way- and motorbikes are definitely more efficient when it comes to weaving through traffic (watch out if you ever drive there- I can't believe I once thought the 405 in LA was bad when it came to motorcycles weaving in traffic- that was nothing!).  I hope I can return to Bangkok when I have a bit more time to explore the city.


Cultural lessons: Correct, Repeat, Toilet... not necessarily all in one sentence.
A few other random things I have learned at work- mostly in the context of communicating with many different native language speakers-
  • When someone wants to tell me they  agree with me they say "correct"( vs "right", or "ok", or "yes").  It can make you feel like you are on Jeopardy but I am getting used to it!
  • When you don't understand what someone just said, you simply say "repeat", not " can you say that again" or "what was that you just said?". Simple words are best!
  • Ask for the "toilet" if you need it- not the "restroom" or "bathroom"- Rob and I have both gotten some quizzical looks on that one!

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

So much to be thankful for...


written and directed by Rob

Happy to have all her favorite toys :)
It’s been a big few weeks, as you can probably tell from this 10-page blog post. Right after I wrote last, we received our sea shipment. This is the majority of our things that we had sent over from the US. It took 7 weeks to get here, which is actually pretty quick. It was long enough for us to forget much of what we sent…so it was sort of like Christmas when we opened each box (too bad all the toys were for Avery). We sent a ton of food and toiletries because we were scared of doing without. Just as we suspected, we sent too much stuff here, but somehow we’ve been able to find ways to creatively store it all (yes, all 8 jugs of peanut butter).
Oh no! Put it back in the box!
Hmmm...not so bad.
 
Happy birthday, mama!
We celebrated a couple of big holidays, most importantly Carly’s birthday!! We went to Sentosa, which is a resort island in Singapore. There are activities on the island for all interests and ages (even adults), and they even have a Universal Studios. We rode a cable car over to the island, splashed it up in the water park, swam in the ocean, ate lunch on the beach and still had time to feed stingrays in the aquarium. For anybody visiting Singapore, I highly recommend going to Sentosa (after visiting us, of course). The highlight of our day was sitting at lunch as a family…looking out at the ocean…realizing we’re only 15 minutes from our house. Happy birthday, Carly J

Cable cars from the future
Sentosa from up high

Merlion spotting


OK...maybe a bit overwhelming
for a 2 year old

Walking to the "southernmost
point of continental Asia"

Looks happy now, but if you could hear
the scream when the stingrays came to feed...

Pinchy crab
We also celebrated a great Thanksgiving. It’s obviously not very popular out here since it’s an American holiday, but most people do know that it’s happening (probably because US business partners aren’t working, the US stock market is closed and/or they see the giant parade on the news). Being a stay-at-home dad at the time, my contact with the outside world was more limited, so I thought it was actually on the 29th until Carly let me know the day before! Fortunately, we were invited to a big Thanksgiving dinner with our friend Russ Dalby, his family and some of their neighbors. Even though it couldn’t replace our family or 2 days off of work, we were very grateful to spend the holiday with good friends and good food.

Merry Christmas, Charlie Brown
We’re slowly getting into the Christmas spirit here, too, even though it’s over 90 degrees every day. One thing we did not pack in our sea shipment was a single Christmas decoration. But I mentioned in a prior blog that Christmas is relatively big here, so we didn’t have trouble finding some small decorations for our condo (that can be easily stored after Christmas – thanks, IKEA J). We can’t say that this Christmas will be like any before, but when is that ever the case? Avery is already in the Christmas spirit singing Jingle Bells and We Wish You a Merry Christmas.





In other news, after 9 weeks off, I’m back at work as of Monday. All in all, it’s going really well…but we’ll see after my duties are fully transitioned to me (sounds like there’s a TON of complexity in the Asia Pacific region). Our biggest concern from the beginning was Avery’s transition and Jennifer has been great these past few days. As we suspected, she’s able to handle it all – Avery, Scout, cleaning, shopping, cooking…we really lucked out! And here is something we’re slowly getting used to - Carly and I work in the same building…on the same floor…within 10 yards of each other.

Get comfy in your booster seat...
fish feeding could take awhile
Avery singing "happy birthday"
to the giraffes
An update on Avery – she’s adjusting very well. Her swimming is getting better and better every week. She’s at least in the pool 2x per week, if not more. She wears a swim vest and moves her legs like she’s the engine of a Flintstone’s car. We went to the zoo – Singapore has a great zoo. They don’t need to do much to make the environment look tropical. The monkeys aren’t in enclosures and instead are on islands surrounded by water (with huge fish). Some can often be found swinging around trees throughout the park. Carly found out the hard way when one started throwing leaves down at her from the tree. Avery also has taken a liking to feeding the fish in the pond at our condo. They’re tiny fish, but we think they’re the kind that will grow to be enormous. And it will all be because of Avery feeding them…goldfish crackers of all things.  

And finally, we’ve been able to explore a little more with the food out here now that we can go out without Avery. We had an exciting night in Dempsey Hill where we ate Indian food, listened to live music at Ben & Jerry’s (yes, the same one) and listened to a live band at a Taiwanese restaurant (they only played one song in English - I Will Always Love You by Whitney Houston, of course). Now that I’m working, I’m also able to eat at more local places for lunch. We also went out with my friend from business school who moved out here and will be living in our condominium. We’re excited to have some familiar friends to explore some of Singapore with.

And here are some random things I have found interesting here in Singapore:
  • Rain or shine - it rains just about every  day so you move forward with your plans regardless of weather…unless you need a taxi or there’s lightning while you’re swimming
  • Energy conservation – there are switches on every outlet to turn on/off the electricity and there are also switches outside of each bathroom and the kitchen to turn on/off the water heater. Electricity is expensive
  • Napkin conservation – napkins are hard to come by. People often bring travel packs of tissues to restaurants since some places either don’t have them or charge you for them
  • Clean vs. cleaned – there was an article in the local newspaper recently about how Singapore is actually  not a “clean” city, but is a “cleaned” city since, despite strict laws about  littering, the government needs to spend significant resources to keep the city clean
  • Cigarette pack labels – they’re gross. They all have large, graphic pictures of cancerous tumors and other effects of tobacco use. Be prepared if you’re a smoker and you come here.
  • Good coffee is hard to come by – it’s usually weak, most places don’t have liquid creamer or milk, and the grocery store mostly sells instant coffee
  • Singapore was recently named the most stoic nation (Gallup) despite being the 3rd richest country (Forbes) and ranked as one of the best countries to be born in.
  • Translation
    • Queue = Line
    • Way Out = Exit, Way In = Entrance
Bye-bye for now